Against All Hockey Odds & With a Little Help from the Hockey Gods

Just when we thought we’d been put through an unmatchable emotional wringer with the Boys in their first round series, they messed with our frail hockey parent nerves again in round two.  We all knew going in it would be an uphill battle, having to upset the second place team on the heels of having ousted the first, but we were hopeful the Boys would ride the wave of momentum they’d created.

Unfortunately, what we ended up watching in game one could only best be described as a sh*t show. The previous series, which had only ended two days earlier, had drained  the kids (much as it had us watching in the stands) both emotionally and physically. They surrendered a goal on the very first shift and the match went downhill from there with the scoreboard showing a 4-1 deficit heading into the third period. Then the fun really started as an over-zealous referee decided to put his mark on an already lopsided affair.  Now I don’t want to sound like one of those biased hockey dads, but there is simply something unfair about spending 12 of the 15 minutes of a period on the penalty kill, with the majority of it being two men down. I believe the final tally was 34 minutes in penalties for the visitors to six for the home team. What was particularly frustrating was watching our Captain trying to get clarity from the head ref on why a couple of the questionable calls were being made and being demonstratively rebuffed.  He further refused to even speak with the head coach who likewise wanted to have calls explained.  This particular referee was going to do what he was going to do without question.  The bench did what they could to try to keep the Boys’ emotions in check, but their frustration got the best of them and one was ejected from the game for what were likely unsavoury comments. Another was tossed after he took a hit to the head and retaliated with his stick. Just after the game we would find out his penalty would escalate into a four game suspension; thereby removing an important component from our side who were already underdogs. To put the cherry on this mess, the goaltender took a pretty good slash up around the neck during a scrum in the crease late in the third period prompting a visit from the team trainer aka our hockey Momma. Her attempts to get the ref to acknowledge the flagrant foul likewise went unheeded as he stood at centre ice with his arms firmly crossed. She was able to grab the ear of a linesman who actually sympathized with her saying, “This guy shouldn’t even be reffing at this level,” a damning comment to be sure. After all the drama the game ended with the Boys on the wrong side of a 6-1 drubbing, but the officiating was so bad it almost lessened the sting. The Boys did not play well and would have lost the game, but I thought the third period simply fanned the flames of their determination. Surely they would bounce back with a better effort in game two.

I was not able to attend the second game as it coincided with playoff game for the Devil. However, I was told the team indeed turned in a much better effort, though they would find themselves behind two games to none after a 2-0 loss. Pretty much everyone had a feeling the end of the kids’ run was near as it would take three victories to advance. It wasn’t feeling like the tide would turn any time soon.

I was likewise not able to be at game three as the Devil and I had ventured north for a three day weekend tournament, which generated a few stories of its own to maybe be recounted at a later date.  So I waited and watched my cell phone with bated breath expecting hockey momma to report less than favourable news.  Instead, I was pleasantly surprised to hear the Boys were able to grind out a 3-1 win in enemy territory.  While faint they had injected some hope back into their quest to advance to the provincial semi-finals.

Game four was played just a couple of nights ago and started out well with the two-goal hero of game three getting the ball rolling with another marker in the first period.  But the visitors would bounce back with two goals of their own and would carry a 2-1 lead into the third period. The Boys were 15 minutes away from elimination, hadn’t played a great game to that point and an uneasy feeling made its way into my stomach. The stress induced indigestion would hold firm along with the rivals’ lead until five minutes left in the third when our side managed to bang in a rebound to knot the score at 2-2. A tie would prolong the series, though the opposing side could end it with another tie to reach the magic six point threshold.  Little did we know our side had no intention on settling for a tie. As luck, or fate, would have it, my Boy would supply the heroics. He says right before a draw to the left of the rival goaltender he went up to his centreman and said, “Tie him up, I got this,” a conversation I haven’t corroborated with his linemate, but I believe him. The centreman did as he was told and the Boy swooped in from the right wing boards to throw a shot on net; a shot which found its way under the goaltender’s left arm and into the waiting mesh behind him. The home crowd erupted in near disbelief and my pride-filled heart nearly burst from my chest.  The series was tied at two games apiece with the deciding game five scheduled a mere 17 hours later back down at the enemy rink.

Could the Boys complete the surprising, amazing comeback? No other team had beaten their counterparts three games in a row all season.  We would find out early in game five our guys were more than ready to change that trend. It was their take a quick lead again courtesy of one of their hottest scorers who’d had three goals in the previous two games. He rifled a shot over the right shoulder of the keeper to provide the quick advantage.  A couple of minutes later the Boys doubled their lead, the shaky opposing goalie was yanked  and the visiting crowd around me was ecstatic. But we all hate two goal leads, particularly in such a pressure-packed game against a tremendous foe who we suspected would not go quietly.  Early in the second period the Colts would get the insurance goal we all hoped for. Yet games of this magnitude rarely end easily. In a seeming flashback to game one, the head referee suddenly found his whistle, calling no fewer than five consecutive penalties against our side. The Boys would need to fend off several minutes on the penalty kill, near the end of which they surrendered the first goal against.  However, they counted a small win in only giving up the single. The upstart visitors would head into the third period with a still precarious two goal lead. The ice flood between periods gave us all a chance to take a breath and check our unquestionably rising blood pressure.  In the third, the ref continued to emphatically blow his whistle, only this time primarily signalling penalties against the home side who probably felt they needed to play more aggressively to survive.  Instead, one of the two-man deficits they created provided an opportunity for the underdogs to extend their lead by one; more high-fives and hollers echoed from our end of the rink.  The Boys, on the shoulders of an incredible playoff-long performance by their netminder, would successfully protect their three-goal cushion and secure their spot in the next round. The Boy, in his final year of minor hockey, has now risen to the loftiest heights of his personal career thanks to a true team effort. Though I’m pretty sure if you ask any of them, they are far from done their ascent and all have their eyes firmly fixed on a berth in the Finals.

Coincidentally, I am spinning this tale from a seat looking out onto the very ice where the Boys completed their comeback a day ago, as the Devil and her crew prepare for a do or die match on a rink only a few steps away.

Zamboni-ice

Stay tuned hockey fans (and maybe say a wee prayer to the hockey gods)…methinks, nay I know, there is plenty more drama to come.

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By the Skin of Their Mouthguarded Teeth

I’ve said it before, I lived it coaching a “last place” team a little over a year ago and I’ll say it again…playoff hockey is a different beast; all bets are off once ya hit the second season. Case in point this time around is a first round series just completed, which pitted the Devil’s 17-3-2 team (scoring nearly 4 goals per game) vs. their seventh place foes who finished at 9-13. During the season the Sharks had prevailed in the head-to-head series with 4-1 and 5-0 wins along with a 1-1 tie. That tie had, of course, come just before the playoffs began, setting the stage for what we were about to watch.

playoff hockey bracket

In game one on home ice, the girls came out decidedly flat skating to 1-1 tie in a series to be determined by the first team to reach 4 points. One point each to start meant at least three games would be required to solve this one. It felt like from where I stood like some confidence had been shaken.

Game two would surely see the girls return to their prior dominant form? But instead, we witnessed a few weak markers for the home side, our goaltender pulled in favour of the day’s backup and a 3-1 deficit going into the final frame. To their credit, the Sharks did fight back countering with three goals in the third for a narrow 4-3 victory. No guarantees for a positive outcome in the third and final game. If the challengers were able to secure a victory in regulation time, the series would actually need to be decided by a 10 minute overtime period. As chance would have it and to further demonstrate the playoff point, the first place team was embroiled in a similar battle of their own vs. #8. The first place squad, who hadn’t lost one game during the entire regular season entered their last match in must-win mode after registering a tie and a loss in their first two.

Off to the third and final match, where the Devil and her mates were finally able to get off to a quick start, taking a 1-0 lead only 20 seconds in. Unfortunately, their advantage would quickly evaporate and turn into another 2-goal deficit as the buzzer sounded to mark the end of the second period.  A goaltending change had been made for a second contest in a row. The girls would need to come from behind yet again if they hoped to advance to the next round. Luckily for them and our frayed nerves a 3-3 tie would be enough to move on. And the game would indeed be tied with about six minutes remaining. The keeper, who’d been bailed out by her partner one game earlier, returned the favour by making a few big stops down the stretch. The Sharks would avoid a round one upset, but definitely not without some tense moments.

Bring on round two against a stronger opponent who finished the season just behind our girls in third place and a separate concurrent provincial playdown series against one of only two teams the girls have not beaten yet this year. It won’t get any easier from here on in. That being said, our ladies can move forward and derive confidence knowing they came back from two goals down two games in a row to take the first one. More playoff challenges to come. The unpredictability of it all is a big part of what makes it so much fun.

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Playoff Hockey, Superstitions and I May Need a Heart Transplant

Call me superstitious, but I didn’t even want to talk about the Boy’s first round series until it was over. So here I am, post-game five in the middle of the night with nerves decidedly frayed to provide a synopsis of a hockey series with all the drama you could possibly want or ask for. What’s that you say…NHL hockey is back?

To properly set the scene, we actually have to go back to four game season series, which saw our Boys record nary a win against their first place opponents registering two ties and two losses including a 5-0 drubbing in a particularly forgettable match just before Christmas.  They would enter the series as the 4th place underdogs who backed into the playoffs with a less than stellar final four games. The odds were certainly stacked against them, but playoff hockey, as though of us who have been watching for years on end know, is a whole different ballgame.

And so the Boys embarked on their uphill battle a little over a week ago. As mentioned in a pre-series post, the one thing they did have in their favour was the return of a couple of players from the sick bay.  The Boys would face their nemesis with the closest thing they’d have to a full roster all year – minus one defender and their second goaltender, who incurred injuries of their own in the final weeks of the regular season.

Pre-Game Hockey Huddle

Pre-Game Huddle: Colts on Three

The opponents with the better record would naturally have home ice advantage so game one was in enemy territory. Our side was quick to let the home team know they were ready to play taking a 1-0 and then 2-0 lead. The first place foes would battle back, but would never catch up in a game ending with a 4-2 score.

Cue up game two back on our home turf, where again our Boys jumped out to a 1-0 lead. This match would be more of a back and forth affair with a fair bit more physicality than its predecessor – the teams were starting to develop a palpable “dislike” for each other with each goal scored and the ensuing taunt-filled celebrations to follow. The hoots and hollers of the still-teenage boys on the ice were echoed by parents and siblings in the stands. Near the end of game two with the scored knotted at two, the visitors were called for a rare “concealing the puck” penalty when one of their players fell on and apparently covered the puck with his gloved-hand.  The Colts struggling powerplay was not able to do much with the man advantage until the final 30 seconds when they mounted some pressure, putting a couple of shots on net. One such shot found its way to a waiting stick and then into the back of the net with only 10 seconds showing on the clock. The underdogs would suddenly have a stranglehold on the series where the first team to 6 points (with 2 points awarded to each win) would advance to the next round.

An unfortunate aspect of minor hockey, as has been documented on more than one occasion, is the effect it can have on some otherwise friendly people. Case in point was the reaction taken by an opposing father, who I know quite well, following game two. He quite literally lost his mind as he walked, or rather stormed, by me on his way out of the arena. I stood mouth agape as he seemingly blamed me and suggested I should be ashamed for the questionable calls the referees had just made thereby influencing his team’s demise (referees, which by the way, were from a different jurisdiction as per provincial hockey rules). I was hopeful he would see the error of his ways and extend an apology as the series went on, but alas none has been forthcoming. I admittedly have not gone looking for one, nor do I intend to.

Back to hockey were the Colts held a commanding series lead, though you had to know the first place team did not get there without putting up a fight and would not go quietly. A good ole fashioned Canadian snowstorm cancelled game three and forced it to be moved to the game four slot back on our home ice, giving the good guys a bit of an advantage. However, as expected, the opponents came on strong; particularly their goaltender, who backstopped a shutout in what would be a 1-0 victory and forcing a game four in their home rink.

Our Boys would have a second opportunity to put the series to rest. I would miss this game with the Devil playing game two of her own series at precisely the same time at a rink over an hour away. Momma and I would have to anxiously follow each series via text…which was particularly stressful as the Boys skated to 1-1 tie in regulation forcing a 10 minute overtime. I waited and waited almost not wanting to see the next text message. When the tone announced its arrival, I looked through my fingers to see an unfavourable final score of 2-1 for the bad guys. This series would need to go to a game five for all the marbles. Because of the snow cancellation, the first placers would get back-to-back games in their rinks.

Which brought us back to the unfriendly confines just a few hours ago with uneasy feelings in at least a few stomachs on both sides I dare say.  After dropping Momma and da Boy at the arena, I would catch up with her a half an hour before game time where she would report the Boy was engaging in torrid pre-game pacing. We was up and down checking on the status of a Novice game several times, where normally he would not leave the dressing room. In the lobby, you could just feel everyone’s communal anxiety mounting. Unfortunately, the first period would do nothing to quell said anxiety as it was the home side’s turn to build a 1-0 then 2-0 lead. Things were not looking good for the underdogs. The Colts would cut the lead by one in the second period on something of a flukey goal as their goalie misplayed a puck passed from the other end of the ice and chased down by one of our forwards. The errant disk somehow found its way under a sprawling keeper and just across the goal line.

hockey scarAll that was left was a third period and potentially overtime should our Boys be fortunate enough to at least tie the game at 2s. The opponents would try to go into a defensive shell and protect their lead, however, this tactic fell short within minutes as the Colts were in fact able to knot the score. A few minutes later, with their own anxiety apparently mounting, the favourites took an ill advised 4 minute penalty as one of them tried to decapitate da Boy, who ended up with a nice war wound for his efforts. Shortly thereafter they would be assessed another 2 minute minor for boarding, creating a 5 on 3 powerplay opportunity for the good guys.  The comeback would be completed a minute and a half into the two-man advantage as a late addition to the team poked in the go-ahead goal.  The next 6 minutes would be nothing short of psychological hell as our lads battled through an onslaught from the home team, which included a powerplay of their own and a brief 6 on 4 situation with their goalie pulled in favour of an extra attacker. The goaltending display put on by our young man between the pipes in the last 90 seconds was nothing short of spectacular. He found a way of trapping or simply getting in front of pucks he had no business of stopping. Momma on the Boys’ bench reportedly squealed at every shot, whether it hit the net or not, to the annoyance of a few of her bench-mates I’m told (like they weren’t stressed out enough already).  The charges in front of the goaler did all they could to answer the uneven pressure and with 20 seconds left were able to clear the defensive zone. One last rush was met head on at the blue line just before the buzzer mercifully sounded to put an end to the torture.  The visiting stands erupted.  I fumbled with my phone, hardly able to announce the victory to the world “Colts win, Colts win, Colts freaking win…” After the game, just outside the dressing room it felt very much like a pro hockey atmosphere, complete with post-game interviews, which have already made their way to the local news.

Boy Gets the Interview

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And so now, of course, we get to do this all over again as the Boys move on to the next round against an equally challenging foe, who happened to finish second overall during the regular season.  Thankfully, we (and by we I mean us tattered parents) likely have a few days to recoup before series two begins. Oh no wait, the Devil is in a do or die series of her own with the next game in only a couple of days…and that’s all I will say about that……call me superstitious.

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Back to Future Hockey Beginnings

Last weekend, in a partial effort to remember/recapture some of the Boy’s youth and perhaps a bit of our own in the process, Momma, the Boy and I got up relatively early (ok, it was only 8:30, but that’s pretty early for most 17-year-olds on a Sunday) to go watch one of Momma’s co-worker’s kids play hockey. The Boy was also brought along because he’s considered something of a hockey inspiration to the new young player.  The other family had been to a few of the Boy’s recent tournament games and we were returning the favour.

down on the iceNow, we’d been to the young fella’s house league evaluation skate (his first official hockey skate) earlier in the year and we, or at least I, was intrigued to see what progress he’d made in a couple of months. At the evaluation skate, we spent a fair bit of time assuring the kid’s nervous new hockey Momma he’d be fine and to just give him time to figure the whole balance thing out.

Slight progress could even be seen in his first 90 minutes of ice time. I could remember the first few practices I had with first-year players. I can recall patience being a critical part of any successful practice.  Let the kids skate, um walk, a few strides, pick them up and repeat. Once they realize the falling down on ice part doesn’t hurt when you’re covered in pads they’re typically good to go.  We’d been told the young lad had scored his first goal a couple of weeks earlier and had definitely caught the hockey bug in a major way. That too sounded familiar from previous experience with both the Boy and Devil.

hockey face offSure enough we watched as a confident new skater lined up for the opening faceoff. He looked up to send a knowing nod signaling his growing hockey competence. He received the old Don Cherryesque thumbs-up from the Boy and I in return.  As the puck dropped he darted from his left wing perch towards the loose puck in his sights.  A fairy tale storyline would have him continue across the blue line, splitting the D, faking to his forehand and then putting a back-hander top shelf over a bewildered six-year old goaltender. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Instead, the wayward rubber disk eluded his reach and he continued headlong down to the ice. A mere moment later he popped back up in pursuit of the puck with the rest of his teammates.  And that, my friends, is indeed progress.

hockey goalAt the end of the second period, we watched as this same kid, who only a few weeks early was struggling with staying upright, was literally streaking (ok, streaking may be a little strong) down the right wing and pushing the puck towards the goal. The end result was one of two assists he would be credited with in the game. There were, of course, a few stronger players on the ice, but he certainly didn’t look out of place. You could tell he was determined to skate with them all. And that, my friends, is likewise progress.

For many hockey players I’ve encountered over the last 12+ years, which is a pretty good sample size methinks, the main thing holding them back is between their ears. Many players, regardless their skill level, only play as well as they really want to play. I believe there are plenty of success stories, including those of the professional variety, which hinge on determination and will.

The young lad is off to a good start in the spirit and desire department…the skating (including backwards), stick-handling, passing and shooting will follow. With the right encouragement the spirit will no doubt carry him a long way. If when he’s 17 he still likes the game half as much as the Boy and the Devil, regardless the level he reaches they’ll have done a great job (he says typing with one hand and patting himself on the back with the other).

By the way, the game itself was an awesome back and forth high-scoring affair with a game winning goal scored following an end-to-end rush by one of the stronger skaters in the last 30 seconds to break a 7-7 tie. The focus on goaltending skills generally doesn’t start until year two.

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